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We enrolled 14 babies in January! 3 sets of triplets, 4 orphans, and 1 baby whose mother had no breast milk. This month nurses visited 160 babies, 580 tins of formula were distributed and 261 women and infants remain in our care.

Baby Admission Story. Anna already had four children and she hoped that the fifth would be the last.  With five pregnancies she was considered a grand multigravida and all the midwives she saw during her pregnancy reminded her that her delivery might be difficult. She was told again and again that she would need to deliver at a health facility, with a skilled birth attendant.  Anna’s belly grew quickly and on August 2nd she arrived at the health center planning to stay through her delivery.  [Health centers are staffed with midwives, but do not have facilities necessary to handle true obstetric emergencies.] Finally, on September 21st Anna’s contractions started.  The midwife who met her that day at the health center told Anna that she was in labor with twins and encouraged her to  quickly make her way to a larger hospital with an operating room.  That same day, soon after arriving at Nkoma Hospital, Anna quickly delivered two babies.  Thirty minutes passed and rather than the placenta, Anna delivered a third baby.  The babies were premature but Anna was attentive and breastfed as frequently as possible.  Unfortunately, Anna could not keep up with the needs of her three infants and their health began to deteriorate.  Anna’s family could not afford supplemental formula and so a nurse at Nkoma Hospital posted a plea for support on Facebook.  Joyful Motherhood nurses saw the post and enrolled Anna and her babies. The nurses will continue to support Anna with her breastfeeding an provide enough formula to ensure that Tiyamike, Tiyanjane and Tikondane all thrive.

In December nurses admitted 4 infants (2 babies of mothers with severe mental health issues, 1 orphan, and 1 baby whose mother was not producing breast milk). Baby Stella, who was enrolled in program along with her twin last month, died this month following one hospitalisation for diarrhea and a second visit to the Health Center for malaria. Nurses also admitted one postpartum woman who experienced a severe infection. Nurses visited 165 women and infants and distributed 640 tins of formula.

Baby Admission Story. JS is 16.  She has struggled off and on with seizures for most of her life.  At times they are better controlled, at other times, no matter how many pills she swallows, the seizures keep coming.  As a result of the frequent seizures over many years, JS is developmentally delayed.   Earlier in the year someone identified JS as an easy target.  He attacked her, raped her, impregnated her and – as it was later discovered – infected her with HIV.  Thankfully she was able to communicate the identity of her attacker, and he is currently imprisoned.  But for her, there is no return to life before the attack.  JS will struggle with the psychological and physical effects of this trauma for her personal eternity.  This December JS gave birth to a 3lb baby boy.  She had no desire to see, hold or feed the baby and so her relative took in the baby and brought him to Joyful Motherhood.  After delivery JS’s health deteriorated again and she is suffering from uncontrolled seizures. 

This is a story with multiple layers of tragedy.  At times the problems which lead a family to our doorstep, eclipse all the aid we can possibly offer.  Our team cannot heal JS.  We cannot heal her family.  Our team will continue to bear witness, to listen, to validate, and encourage. Our nurses will support JS’s relative as she cares for and raises the baby.  It takes immense courage to remain present and attentive in the face of such deep suffering, but it is important.  We know from experience that giving someone a set of eyes to lock into, or a hand to steady them, is often in itself enough to save a life. Please donate to support our work.

In the month of November the nurses enrolled 9 infants (including 8 orphans and 1 whose mother was experiencing postpartum psychosis). They enrolled 2 women after traumatic births, both who had their uteruses and ovaries removed due to severe infections. The team visited 203 infants and women and distributed 662 tins of formula.

Baby Admission Story. The year doctors told her that the problem with her leg was cancer, TG was 20.  This was the same year she became pregnant.  She experienced one body growing inside, gaining substance, gaining movement, gaining strength.  While simultaneously experiencing her own slipping strength and increasing fragility. It would be reasonable to believe that the vitality of the life growing within would spread to the life of the woman who was its source and its vessel.  But, that is not what happened.  At best, TG experienced days when she tolerated the pain in her leg; when the sick pain was almost eclipsed by the pressure in her pelvis and the kicking in her ribs.  Her family brought her to the hospital again and again, but the treatments offered did not stop her suffering nor the progression of her disease.  Her family watched her belly grow and worried about TG and the fate of her child.  On September 24^th she delivered her daughter by cesarean section. They had a few good days together but in early November, the progression of her disease and the pace of her decline peaked.  TG died on November 10^th.  Unable to bear the cost of purchasing formula, her grieving family sought desperately for help for her orphaned daughter.  Ultimately it was TG’s grandfather who heard about Joyful Motherhood and it was he, who lovingly bundled his six week old great-granddaughter and traveled the distance to ensure her survival.

Mother Admission Story. Eighteen year old Maligelita’s birth experience started with pain and imagined visions of a baby in arms. The middle involved great suffering, a cesarean section provided too late, a hemorrhage, and a blood transfusion. The end involved a dead baby and then the removal of her uterus and ovaries. Nurses will never return her baby or her uterus but they will be with her. They will monitor her physical healing and guide those around her in their support, to give her the best chance to begin to heal emotionally. Donate

In the month of October…

• 11 babies were enrolled including 8 orphans, 2 babies of moms with no breast milk and 1 baby whose mom was experiencing psychosis.
• 2 critically ill women were enrolled after difficult deliveries
• 203 babies and postpartum mothers received home visits by nurses
• 626 tins of formula were provided to infants without access to breast milk.
• nurses are following a total of 242 babies & moms

Baby Admission Story.

Benita had a cough. It wasn’t new.  For years she would feel the need to cough to clear her throat.  Sometimes it was worse and would wake her in the night or steal her breath when she laughed too hard.  Other times it was just an annoyance a small tickle in the mornings that would not resolve.  Her mother encouraged her to go to the hospital but Benita insisted, I am not sick, it is just a cough.  What would they do at the hospital anyway?  Maybe that would give her a medicine or maybe they would just tell her to drink warm liquids.  She could certainly live with it and life in the village was too busy to spend a day walking to the waiting at the hospital for something as banal as a cough. Benita had three children and was pregnant with her fourth.  She attended prenatal care regularly but even there no one though much of her cough.  On July 12, 2020 she delivered a healthy baby girl and returned home on the 13th.  In September her cough worsened and on September 29th she died.  Her mother did not have the resources to care for a newborn, where would she find milk? how could she purchase formula?  By circumstance she met a woman who lived in a neighboring village who was caring for an orphan and enrolled in our program and the grandmother found her way to us.

[No one will ever know what caused Benita’s death.  There are no autopsies for the poor.  In fact even the death itself might not have been registered. It is possible that Benita had asthma and then died of covid.] Donate

Mother Admission Story.

When Rhoda showed up to the prenatal clinic at a rural clinic with a small bump of a belly, the midwives told her that she would need to deliver at the District Maternity Hospital.  She was only sixteen and they foresaw a difficult birth.  It would be risky to attempt to deliver her in a facility that had minimal capacity to offer emergency obstetric care and no capacity to conduct a cesarean section.  They reminded her each visit and when her labor started on October 23^rd, she made her way to Bwaila (the District Hospital).  The labor was indeed hard. With no pain medication, Rhoda suffered the onslaught of her contractions without progress.  Finally in the afternoon of the follow day she delivered a baby boy by cesarean. Her son had experienced a great deal of stress during the labor and his condition was poor. Rather than stay with his mother he was sent to the nursery. On the 25^th Rhoda’s abdomen was painfully distended and nurses observed green discharge oozing from the wound.  She and her baby were transferred to the Regional Hospital for better care.  On the 26^th clinicians reopened the wound and her abdomen was irrigated.  She did not improve.  Nor did her son.  On November 4^th she had a total hysterectomy – uterus, ovaries gone.  On the same day, her baby died.  She was discharged home on November 11^th. 

Statistically, Rhoda is a success.  She is not counted among the many African women who die in childbirth. But when we move from the macro-statistics and focus on Rhoda; when we hear her story, we can only count it as a tragedy.  There are so many more women like Rhoda on the continent who struggle to go on after traumatic births, which leave them both physically and emotionally wounded. Join us to support the re-empowerment of Rhoda and women like her and to bring attention to their lives. Donate now

This month nurses enrolled 12 babies (5 orphans (including a set of twins), a set of triplets, 1 baby whose mom is in the ICU, and 3 infants whose moms are not producing any breastmilk). One mother was enrolled due to severe infection. Nurses visited 213 women and babies and delivered 589 tins of formula. There was one death this month – Stefano was a 10-month-old triplet, he was hospitalized for a diarrheal illness and died during his hospitalization.

Baby Admission Story. At 33 years old, Chamjira, was pregnant for the fifth time, this time with twins.  She attended her prenatal visits, but after birthing four healthy babies, she felt calm about the delivery.  Chamjira lived in a rural area.  Her home, that of her parents, and those of her siblings sat huddled together on a bare well-swept patch of land.  Around the homes were the fields which sustained the family through the year.  And, within sight of their homes were others of community members. Though the fields sat empty in September, they still required work – hoeing, tilling, preparations for the planting season.  Halfway through her pregnancy Chamjira had stopped participating in the hard labor. She stayed near the homes, where the work was also plentiful but less physically grueling. 

On September 9^th Chamjira was alone in the house when her labor started.  The contractions came on strong and fast.  There was no way for her to walk out to find or call for help.  No one had a phone.  Chamjira was focused.  The babies came quickly, a daughter then a son.  She picked them up and cradled them in her arms.  She pushed to birth the placenta, but instead of the placenta there was only blood, so much blood.  Chamjira tried to focus on her babies; the feel of their bodies against hers.  She focused on keeping them warm, but the bleeding continued, and she started to drift in and out of consciousness. 

Her mother walked through the door at 10am.  She found Chamjira there in the pool of her blood, gasping her last breaths, but still holding her babies.  Screaming, Chamjira’s mother ran to get help, and within a few minutes a small group gathered, but it was too late for Chamjira. The women cried with her mother, but told her to quickly take the babies to seek help, they would stay, clean Chamjira’s body, the house, and keep vigil until she returned.   Everyone knew that without a mother, the chance of the twins surviving depended completely on finding help to purchase formula.  If help were unavailable the babies would surely follow their mother in death within days.  

With tears clouding her vision Chamjira’s mother bravely took up the assignment to save the two fragile lives that remained.  Within an hour she arrived with the babies at the nearest health center.  There midwives examined and weighed the babies (a healthy girl and boy of 4lbs 13oz and 6lbs 6oz) and referred the grandmother to Joyful Motherhood for support.  Filled with grief, embattled by anguish, fear and hope she continued her journey.  A few hours later, with two hungry newborns in her arms, she crossed the threshold of Joyful Motherhood. (Chamjira’s mother is pictured above with babies Maureen and Moffat on the day they were enrolled.)

Mother Care Admission Story. AM is 21 years old.  Though she had always felt healthy, she tested positive for HIV in her pregnancy.  The diagnosis was devastating and it took time for her to assimilate the information, but the midwives gave her hope.  She took medicine every day to reduce her baby’s risk of contracting the virus from her.  She did everything she was supposed to – going to her prenatal visits, taking iron supplements, anti-malarials, and the anti-virals.  She made it to nine months before labor started. 

She knew labor would be hard, but she never anticipated the impossible. The contractions tore through her, one after another, but her baby did not drop into her pelvis.  She felt the baby was not correctly positioned inside. She cried to the midwives in desperation and after three days of labor she was sent from the health center to a neighboring hospital where she could deliver her baby by c-section.  Thankfully, her baby boy tolerated the prolonged labor and was born alert and healthy on July 4th. 

Mom and baby stayed in the hospital; AM convalescing and learning to breastfeed.  (HIV positive women may transmit the virus to their babies via breast milk. But, the risk of the baby contracting and dying from HIV is lower than a risk of a baby dying from starvation or diarrheal illness when a family cannot afford to purchase formula. For this reason, the World Health Organization continues to recommend that HIV positive women breast feed their babies for one year.)  After three days nurses noticed that AM’s abdomen was swelling and the wound reopening.  AM received antibiotics and rather than closing the wound, nurses assessed it, cleaned it, and changed the dressings daily while it slowly healed from the inside out.  Finally on September 25th, AM’s wound was healed sufficiently that she and her baby were discharged from the hospital and told to follow up at the health center for the remainder of her wound care.  Joyful Motherhood nurses met and visited her during her hospital stay and will also continue to visit her in her home over the next several months to ensure her complete recovery.

• 10 babies were enrolled (5 orphans, 1 set of triplets, and 2 babies of moms with no breast milk)
• 2 women were enrolled
• Nurses visited 190 babies and women
• 1 baby (a triplet) died from malaria

Baby Admission Story. Lufeyo was the second child of Mwaiwawo.  Mom and baby made it through delivery and returned home just one day later. Initially everything seemed to be going well. Lufeyo was an eager nurser and Mwaiwawo produced plenty of milk.  But then, after two weeks, Mwaiwawo began to feel that something was not right.  She found it difficult to articulate the exact problem, she thought perhaps it was related to her episiotomy which was still painful.  She returned to the hospital where nurses checked her wound and sent her home again. A few days later her discomfort and anxiety increased.  Filled with fear she told her family that the right side of her body was heavy and limp, minutes later she lost consciousness and began to convulse.  Her family rushed her back to the hospital, but Mwaiwawo died before she received any treatment.  Nurses referred her family to Joyful Motherhood to assist with the care of her newborn.

Mother Admission Story. At 35 Lexa was pregnant for the third time.  As her belly grew, she anxiously considered her pregnancy and tried to keep the hope locked tight inside her chest.  Her peers all had three to five children, some old enough to help with farming and cooking.  Her first born was now 12, but his brother who was born two years later died at age three from hydrocephalus.  During those three years the entire family suffered along with him.  They watched him regress physically, first losing the ability to walk and crawl, then even to sit and smile.  At first the clinicians told her that he would be fine, but then when his head began to grow and his gaze became vapid, they told her it was too late.  Life continued with a sour edge;  she learned to live with loss and fight expectation, but then she became pregnant. 

Labor started on August 18^th. Lexa initially went to the local public maternity clinic, but the midwives kept sending her out to walk and told her she was not ready to deliver.  She fought with herself, wavering between doubt and trust of the clinical staff. The following day she decided to seek help at a mission hospital, hoping there the care would be more expedient.  They allowed her to labor until that afternoon when midwives determined that she would not be able to give birth normally.  Her perfect baby girl was born via c-section, stillborn. Lexa’s heart broke.  She lay in the postpartum ward silently grieving her child, waiting to be allowed to leave, trying not to see all the other newly delivered moms nursing their babies all around her.  Everything hurt.  She thought all consuming pain was just what woman feel after they are cut open and their dead babies removed, but then she noticed pus oozing from the surgical wound.  She was sent to the regional hospital five days after the c-section.  There they opened her up again and removed her uterus and her ovaries.  Joyful Motherhood nurses met her at the referral hospital as she was recovering from her second surgery.  They will not be able to fill the void, but they will visit her at home, support her physical recovery, hear her and be present for her grief, and help with a small project to add a bit more financial security to her home.

In July 5 babies were enrolled into our program (3 orphaned infants, 1 baby with a mother in ICU, and 1 baby whose mother was not producing breast milk). One woman with severe anemia was enrolled in our mother care program. Malawian nurses visited 216 woman and infants in their homes. 614 tins of formula were distributed. In partnership with Joyful Motherhood, AMHI is currently supporting the care of 234 women and infants.

Baby Admission Story. Lyness and her family did not have much, but they had enough to get through each day.  They rented a basic home in a community on the outskirts of Lilongwe. The house lacked indoor plumbing, but the water spigot and a pit latrine sat steps from their door.  The house was also close to a clinic and an outdoor market.  Lyness took pride in keeping the home tidy and the dirt yard swept free of footprints.  Her husband left each morning to seek different jobs in Lilongwe to support them. When there was not enough money to buy fish or beans, Lyness’ husband would tell her to take another serving of nsmia (cooked maiz that has been processed to remove husks).  The nsima filled her belly, which seemed to grow day by day, and she was easily sated.  Lyness felt well.  Her baby kicked powerfully from within.  She went for her prenatal visits at the recommended intervals and the midwives told her to expect the baby in July.  Days filled with caring for her toddler and the home slid quickly into months. 

On June 3rd, her contractions started.  She arrived at the clinic, progressed quickly, and delivered a premature baby girl, weighing 4.5lbs.  With a small baby, the delivery was quick this time. But this time, the placenta was difficult to remove.  Even once it was out, Lyness continued to bleed, and the midwives sent her to the regional referral hospital. There clinicians placed an IV, removed the pieces of retained placenta, and stopped the bleeding.  She stayed in the hospital until June 12th. At that point, clinicians determined that she was stable and discharged her home with her baby. Lyness managed to breastfeed her baby girl, but she kept waiting to feel better.  The exhaustion consumed her, and the cold stayed in her bones.  Her head hut. Her chest hurt. Her legs hurt.  On June 29th she died at home.  She was 22 years young.  Midwives in the clinic near their home told her family about Joyful Motherhood.

Many women in Malawi begin labor anemic and malnourished.  Most families do not eat three daily meals, and many make up for a lack of food rich in protein, fat and vitamins with extra nsmia.  Nsmia is the staple food of Malawi, but has minimal nutritional content.  Because many women suffer from chronic anemia, their bodies learn to cope with incredibly low levels of iron.  Blood loss occurs with every delivery (typically 250-500ml), and even normal blood loss in a severely anemic woman can push her over the edge and cause cardiac failure. 

First, it is likely that Lyness began labor already anemic.  The second problem was the delay.  Fortunately, Lyness lived close to town and motorized transport to the referral hospital was accessible. (If she had been in a village or outlying health center, she likely would have died along the way.)  Even so, if she was bleeding heavily, it is possible that she lost another liter of blood during the transport.  Finally, hospitals and blood banks in Malawi, never have sufficient blood products; it is rare for a single individual to receive more than a pint or two regardless of their condition.  The little that exists must be shared by all.  Lyness likely needed more blood and she was discharged too soon. 

The first contact between Joyful Motherhood and clients always follows a tragedy.  When matched with an orphan our goal is to ensure the well-being of that child.  When matched with a mother after a difficult delivery, our goal is to ensure that she recovers to care for herself and her family.  Joyful Motherhood will accompany Lyness’ family through the next chapter, ensuring that they feel supported and that her baby girl thrives. Ensure the future of this work by donating HERE

In June nurses admitted 11 babies (4 orphans, 1 set of triplets, 3 babies whose mothers did not produce breast milk, and 1 baby whose mother developed postpartum psychosis). The mother suffering from postpartum psychosis was also admitted into our program. Our team visited 227 babies and critically ill postpartum women. Nurses distributed 635 tins of formula to babies without access to breast milk.

Baby Admission Story. Emma had three children.  Life had been challenging, but her children were healthy and her youngest was ten when she learned of her new pregnancy. At 37 she was considered unusually old for a baby.  Thankfully, the pregnancy was uneventful and according to hospital notes, the delivery was also. Emma delivered a healthy six pound baby girl on June 7th. Emma named her Happiness; life was complete.  Three days after the birth, mom and baby returned home.  Before the hospital bag was even unpacked, Emma started complaining of headaches, chest pain, and dizziness.  Family convinced her to turn around and return to the hospital.  At the District Hospital, they checked her blood type and her blood pressure, which was very low. No one bothered to check to see if she was anemic or to evaluate for an infection.  She was referred to the Regional Hospital and admitted to a high acuity ward.  It seems there was no additional treatment and she died there on June 14th. Her family was referred to Joyful Motherhood for the support of her surviving infant.  This is the tragic story of another preventable death that produced four more orphans

Mother Admission Story. At 20 Betty was bright and dynamic. She became pregnant unexpectedly and as her belly grew, a mix of curiosity, excitement, and anxiety grew with it.  On June 19th she began to feel pain in her belly and went to the labor ward at the district hospital.  Midwives there determined that she was not yet in labor and sent her home to continuing waiting.  The following day she began hallucinating and was taken to a mission hospital where her baby boy was delivered by c-section.  The hallucinations deepened and darkened; she seemed lost to her family and had no capacity to connect or care for the fragile being she had just brought into the world.  Betty was hospitalized briefly and nurses referred her family to Joyful Motherhood for additional support for the entire family.

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